Receiving a Big on reveal night is one of the most exciting and unforgettable memories created in Alpha Phi. A Big is someone who offers guidance throughout your entire college experience. She is a shoulder to lean on when you're sad, a person you can laugh with until you can't breathe, and someone who you can truly call your best friend. The Big - Little relationship holds a special place in every member's heart, even as they receive their own Little and become a Big someday. Each lineage is a small family inside the larger sisterhood.